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In my privilege during this pandemic, I’ve found some solace in being able connect with friends and loved one from anywhere in the world, finding an opportunity to create and communicate impact while earning an income and be a sponge to new information. However, I’ll admit that it hasn’t been easy to have my home be am accommodation, restaurant, office and shopping mall one-stop shop, without it taking a considerable amount of effort to adapt the diet and exercise of my mind and how to embrace this new normal caused by COVID-19. I am no wellness instructor to yoga master, but I will share five old and new habits that have been helping me adapt, and resources to experts whom you can engage.
In the business of COVID-19, it’s not only industries that are being disrupted and forced to either pivot or shut down, but its employees and anyone who is currently in the capacity, as an independent consult or full time content creator being impacted. At present, I’m consulting on a number of projects, in the process of creating my Design Thinking Social Impact course and working with brands via my social media platforms, so the work has to get done, one way or another, and these are the list of five habits that have been helping me.
I learnt of this term through my former manager, Max Pichulik, in one of our conversations on “What podcasts are you listening to this week?” where he discussed how he collided with it. A term coined by Cal Newport in his book, Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World; deep work is explained as “Professional activities performed in a state of distraction-free concentration that push your cognitive abilities to their limit. These efforts create new value, improve your skill, and are hard to replicate”. Blocking 2-5 hours of at least three times of the five days of the week, has done wonders for me in my work and cultivating my discipline. Behaviours that have aided in ensuring this happens efficiently include blocking the time in my calendar, switching off my internet (and ensuring that should the work I do require the use of it, I collate the information before hand) and schedule it either in the morning or evening, where I know I’m more productive. Here’s an excerpt from the book to get you familiar with the concept.
Sleep, Nap and Sleep
As Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts says, “Sleeping is my ministry”, and I am an obedient congregant of that church. I love sleep and can talk about it until I grab the attention of a non-believer. I’m also insomniac, which means that my sleeping patterns don’t allow me to nap but either operate on 2-3 hours of sleep or a full 12+ hours at a time and be efficient. The most important take-away from this paragraph besides my paradoxical love for sleep and being an insomniac, is that sleep is a form of self-care and is a sign of your body communicating that you’re tired – listen to it. Yesterday, I slept at 05h23 and woke up at 07h10 and over the weekend, I’ll most likely sleep at 22h30 and wake up between 13h00 and 14h00, so I know which days of the week, and times of day I’m able to be functional and productive. Figure out what works for you and take it from there.
Cut off time
It can be so tempting to want to overly commit to your work, and in the process lose the boundaries that you have set to have the peace of mind and withdraw from work. I’ve made it a mission to complete my consulting work by 17h00 and 18h00 the latest (and only for a call that can’t be translated into a meeting), and the other hours before and after this time, is dedicated to creating work into my other income streams. A tool that helps with this is the built-in screen time manager with anything digitally that could distract me, and unapologetically revert the next morning.
The idea of working from home does not mean working from your bed. Yes, I’m talking to you (and past me). I have ;created a routine which unashamedly starts with snoozing my alarm with 3-4 times, prayer and meditation, making up my bed and getting ready for the day away from the comfort of my bed. This could be the lounge, kitchen, or the desk office in the bedroom – but separate your work station from you bed. A Fast Company article details some reasons as to why a routine is scientifically backed to be a good thing to develop a habit of, even conducting business during a pandemic. I also ensure that, even if I wear sweatpants or jeans, that I always wear a smart casual top and jacket or coat for those Zoom meetings and Google hangouts. A routine sets the tone of your day, make sure that you honour you day with the audacity of showing up in your full self.
I’m currently in the process of renovating my bedroom to ensure that I get the right space that will facilitate the inspiration to adapting a diet for my psychology that will work for it. I didn’t really pay much attention to it because I spent most of my time in hotels or Airbnbs, and now that I’m on lockdown, I’ve realised that maybe painting my room purple and getting colourful curtains was not the best interior design choice I’ve made. Back to the point, and that is, whatever room I’m working in, facing or having my side to the light is important to me, and thanks to one of my favourite interior designers and architects, this is a great video of how lighting affects your mood (and to end, the productivity).
I truly hope that sharing how I have adapted and continuously do so, has helped you shed some light on what you can do to make the most of how to take care of your wellbeing and administer this progress through a system that is tailored for you.
How are you adapting a healthier diet for your mind while you continue through the business of COVID-19? Let me know in the comments section, I’d love to engage and learn from you.