Around this time, a month ago I was landing back on South African turf at Cape Town International Airport coming from an inspired few days at the One Young World summit hosted in Bogota, Colombia at the Agora Bogota International Convention Centre. I was at the summit as a Thomson Reuters delegate and there was no preparation for the monumental few days it had been getting an opportunity to represent the continent and women in technology and innovation. I’d landed at El Dorado International Airport with 2 unnecessarily large (my mother’s words) grey bags and a brown purse ready to be a woman in technology with style, and to network and minister impact while getting and exchanging the tools of the social intrapreneurship trade.
Founded by David Jones and Kate Robertson in 2009 with the vision to invite young leaders across the global to formulate and share innovative solutions for pressing world issues, the summit has grown to be one of the largest has grown to be one of the largest gatherings of young global leaders. This year brought over 1500 delegates from 196 countries, all with the goal in mind to share stories and the work that our peers and their organisations and businesses are doing, and so that we may connect and be empowered to create greater social impact and add value.
The first day of the summit allowed me to meet with other Thomson Reuters delegates from all over the world, who are doing incredible social impact work inside and outside of the company, and to register for what was going to be an unforgettable experience. I had been connecting with one incredible colleague from the Philippines via social media prior to the event, Emmanuele Marie Parra, a Publishing Specialist by trade at Thomson Reuters and currently the Thomson Reuters Foundation Ambassador. It was great to connect with Emmanuele and hear more about her passions outside the business as an Anti-human trafficking advocate. If one thing is certain, it’s that it’s great to be with a company that values what you value, and invests in one's ability to make you even better at what you're technically skilled at and are passionate about , and at Thomson Reuters, there’s many millennials who take heed to that!
The unofficial second day, and first day of workshops and speaker engagements started at 08h45 with a session highlighting Nobel Peace Laureate Professor Muhammad Yunus’ objectives on the impact and giving the delegates insight into the work that he does. Yunus’s talk was bedded in his work in financial services innovation to alleviate poverty and build economic development across Asia. The talk was followed by a series of other engagements that unpacked case studies and actions that fellow delegates are undertaking to drive change in their communities, which undoubtedly was the most inspiring part of the program. The day stretched to cover topics ranging from anti-corruption, to using social media for good and powering sustainable development in communities. The workshop that left me underwhelmed and I was really looking forward to was hosted by The Bristol-Myers Squibb Foundation, with a prime focus on "How to Create a Public Private Partnership". It was more of a presentation with a Q&A session afterwards than being workshopped the tools of the topic at hand, engaging with the content and delegates at hand.
It was day two’s programme that was the one that I was looking forward to learning from and engaging with. There’s a clear dependency of innovation and profit from global companies driving diversity and inclusion as a business agenda. What policies need to be implemented to plant a seed of urgency in the public sector? African youth and women are still marginalized groups who are not as active economically as their men and senior counterparts, what actionable conversations are being had and actions implemented? These were some of the questions that I was hoping to get answers from, and more particularly, shared case studies from the corporates on how they’re holding themselves accountable for the actions of their businesses. I didn’t get all my answers.
Themed on private and public partnership and corporates doing business in alignment with Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR), the content was promising. It was the “Fighting Racial Injustice” panel that included Black Lives Matter activist Deray McKesson, Apple’s Vice President of Inclusion and Diversity Denise Young Smith, reporter Aamna Modhim and moderated by KPMG’s Global Head of Citizenship Michael Hastings that was one of the most transparent conversations on the main stage. The discussion unpacked using social media as tool to not only fight racism but create awareness around it, while Denise highlighted on need for the ascension of black women corporate and her role at Apple. The crux of the conversation brought out how technology, journalism and intrapreneurship are empowering people with the potential to disrupt societal structures.
Hosted by The Circle of Young Intrapreneurs looking at “How to Profitably Do Good: Social Intrapreneurship?” was a workshop that I’m happy I attended. The moderators really looked at some of the issues that we were passionate about, and imparted tools and techniques, and the network to be able to be supported and do the work. And recently, a Circle of Young Intrapreneurs -Johannesburg chapter powered by fellow delegates at PWC was launched, which was incredibly attended, sharing One Young World anecdotes and imparting intrapreneurial learnings for the aspirant intrapreneur and the corporate millennial who's an innovator at heart or by trade.
So, a month has passed, now what?
I’m so grateful to have had the opportunity to attend the summit and be exposed to a global network of my peers who are doing incredible and inspiring work in their companies and communities. As a One Young World Ambassador also working on a project that focuses on the business value of having millennials as part of the workforce by creating sustainable innovation through the backbone of SDGs – I’m very excited about this one. The other goal to go back in 2018 as a coordinator, mostly with the intention of connecting the Africa delegates and growing that community and connecting it with the opportunities that we all have to create positive change.
Until next year One Young World!
A few weeks ago, I uploaded a blog post about leveraging the value of strategically positioning and the networking opportunity that is on social media platform, LinkedIn. In the article I discussed and unpacked a couple of points on how to make the most of LinkedIn, and wrapped up the post by sharing a new and proudly South African application that is perfect for not only introverts, but for those who are constantly on their phones during conferences and want to be connected. It’s time to have you Knekted to the world.
From 4 – 7 October 2017, I was fortunate enough to have been selected to be a One Young World delegate (now ambassador), and be one of more than 1300 global young leaders who have committed to and are actioning positive change in their communities and their respective industries and sectors.
I have to be honest, I’m quite the extrovert, so I find it quite easy to walk up to someone and engage with them, with the end result being either a business card or a Twitter handle exchanged between the respective parties. In all this, there’s always a moment where even the most confident of extroverts get nervous, what happens then? How would I get the rest of the world to KnektMe to their network?
In comes the beauty of technology, and introducing KnektMe, a proximity based networking tool that uses Bluetooth to discover other users within a specific area.
Founded by 22 year old Carl Visagie, KnektMe is a networking application targeted at entrepreneurs that allows people to connect face-to-face through the virtual platform. Once you have downloaded the application and created your profile (which is more of a business card), you’ll be able to connect to another user and see each other’s skillsets and other general information. Does this sound like any other business platform? Admittedly, it does.
So what’s KnektMe’s unique selling point? It’s the immediacy to network and create a connection where distance is no object.
When I landed in Bogota, I convinced a friend of mine to download KnektMe and to test it within the Agora Convention Centre where the summit would take the place for the days ahead. She agreed to the suggestion and that’s how I got to test out the interface of KnektMe. Because of its close proximity, we were only able to locate each other when we were on the same floor, and sometimes the same room. We managed to connect to each other, easily. The only downside to the KnektMe experience was that we couldn’t connect to every One Young World delegate as they hadn’t downloaded the app yet.
However, if the application was connected to Facebook, Twitter or Instagram as a means to connect with other people, and still within the unique value feature of the proximity with KnektMe be able to pick up those users - I believe it would’ve made One Young World and other events much more valuable.
Using Google Firebase Database to handle everything from security to storage, the platform is quite safe, revealing only the information that you’ve voluntarily shared, which is public.
Free for download on iOS and Android, KnektMe is the perfect platform for start-ups looking for investors and customers, recruiters seeking ideal job candidates, and freelance opportunities as well as general networking opportunities.
This is not a directory of names or a messaging service, it’s an instant networking opportunity for both introverts and extroverts!
I remember being told that there was this new social media platform in town and that the only objective of it was to replace recruiters and the long tedious exercise of applying your CV to HR practitioners who won't tell you why you'd been successful with the application. It was LinkedIn. And I can confidently say that my little birdie who told me about LinkedIn couldn't be far from wrong, from the recruiters and recruitee's perspective.
Two days later I opened my LinkedIn account, this was in October 2014. I then uploaded my favourite picture from Facebook, which, in the early 2000s, obviously was a selfie of me pouting. I then imported everything from my CV into the fields asked by LinkedIn. I then needed to do one more thing, I needed to follow all of the companies that I wanted to work for and then wait for them to follow me back so that I can have my interview. Now all I had to do was wait. And wait, and 2 years later I was still waiting. Clearly there was something wrong with either the recruiters, because my profile filled in all the blanks that LinkedIn asked of me.
It's safe to say that during those 2 years, no recruiter came my way because, well, I didn't have the most palatable LinkedIn account. So what needed to be done in order to be taken seriously as a professional in my field?
I first needed to understand the LinkedIn game before I could play it. LinkedIn is a professional social media network platform that connects professionals from across the world in different industries. The value-add about this platform is that it not only has it for job listings and a myriad of recruiters, it's also an opportunity to broaden your network authentically, receive and give testimonials about yours and your colleagues' work and update your CV as well as establishing your expertise and introducing people to your skills and thought leadership capabilities through blog posts and/or LinkedIn groups with their like-minded individuals.
However, in all of this you have to POSITION yourself correctly. LinkedIn is about perception, and how you consistently commit to it. It can be overwhelming at times to engage on the platform as a newbie, I’ve been there. Let me share 5 rules of engagement that curbed my experience and has now made it an incredible joyride, still learning on the way: 1. Invest in your Image
Your image and voice on LinkedIn will most likely not be the same as Twitter Facebook, where you’ll overshare about personal things, and update the world about your dating woes. The same goes for your images. Your profile picture doesn’t have to be you in a suit with your arms crossed and no smile to be deemed professional, however, do invest in a high resolution portrait picture that embodies your personality and invites not only recruiters and potential employees, but a professional network. You can reach out to Anthea Adams or Thandi Gula for this, they’ve incredible rates that won’t take you thousands of rands of pockets back.
2. "What do you do?"
Without a potential connection having to go through your entire profile or your account, LinkedIn has an incredible feature for you to provide a summary of what you do, and ultimately why you are on LinkedIn. Use this feature to your advantage, because it is your image, job title and executive summary that ultimately makes the first impression and first perception about who you and your work are.
3. Thought Leadership Positioning
Now let’s be clear, having a shiny image and a crisp executive summary doesn’t mean that people will now immediately come to your profile like a swarm of bees, invite them. This you can do through engaging with posts, and also through creating your own. This can be through posting images and status uploads, and one through a blog post. This is one of the most powerful ways to positon your brand as a leader in your market. People want to know how much you know about your market, and essentially be able to trust you about your thoughts an expertise on subject matters in your industry. Create blog posts atleast every two months if you’re starting out, and continuously market your thought pieces.
LinkedIn is all about relationship building, and finding ways to add value to your connections, and vice versa. Once you’ve made a connection, send a simple “Thank you so much for connecting!” or “Thank you for the connection, Much appreciated, I trust we will add value in each other’s lives. Best regards,” follow up note to initiate the relationship. This doesn’t mean that you’ll immediately work together, but you showing interest is a great first step!
As I wrap up this post, I’ve also just discovered a new application from Cape Town, South Africa called KnektMe. It’s the perfect app for the introvert who sometimes doesn’t know how to navigate their way at a tech event or a business lounger. KnektMe is a proximity based networking tool that uses Bluetooth to discover other users within a specific area. Don’t let your shyness get the better of you networking, and let’s continue to use technology to App(size) our careers!
Images by Thandi Gula Photography (left) and Anthea Adams Photography (right)
On Wednesday (06 September) morning, I had the pleasure of spending a couple of hours at SMME Roadshow Opportunity at the Cape Town International Convention Centre and sharing the stage with phenomenal intrapreneurs, entrepreneurs and public sector officials alike. The conference is one that showcases the opportunities to micro, small and medium enterprises with the objective to link these entities with an opportunity to for economic development across the private and public sectors. This is an annual roadshow that takes place in four cities across South Africa, and I had the opportunity to deliver the work that is being done at Thomson Reuters Labs, but also in understanding the framework between how corporate partners with startups.
Intrapreneurship is a term that’s been gathering some steam over the last few years, and the train is moving faster than ever before as corporates have actualised now more than ever the opportunity to adopt the DNA of the startup innovation character. Now more than ever, the c-suite group is making way for the new c-suite titles, gone are the days of a company only having a CEO, CFO and CMO. Because of the urgency to pivot the company’s innovation life cycle, the large organisations are employing Chief Technology Officers (CTOs), Chief Innovation/Information Officers (CIOs), Chief Digital Officers (CDOs) and Chief Growth Officers (CGOs). Companies have designed and brought in this talent of executives to not only do research and execute, but be the bridge between data and customer-centric and the growth of a company. And through this c-suite reshuffle, there’s a pipeline that’s being brought in by these new generation c-suite leaders for large corporates to incrementally and disruptively innovate externally – collaborating with startups.
Just as Brillianaire Consulting‘s Managing Director, Octavius Phukubye encourages, that “Collaboration is the new innovation”, this accounts for corporate across sectors, and not just the cool kids of MNOs and Banks with the rise of curiosity and innovation in the financial services sector. For a startup, there are so many benefits to partner with a corporate, with an opportunity to scale not just reliant on funding. Mechanisms like data and data models, mentorship, paid proof of concepts and connecting the startups with potential customers and business partners are just a few, so as to how fruitful and innovative this kind can partnership can be motivating.
As a startup, before even approaching or pitching to the large corporate, here are a few things that I believe you should keep in mind:
- 1. KYS (Know Your Startup)
In financial and risk, there’s a term known as KYC (Know Your Customer), which is essentially the process of a business identifying and verifying identity of customer. In this respect, as a startup founder, know the value that you will be capturing for the corporate through your talent, structure, processes before the LinkedIn stalking commences. Have your startup ducklings in a row.
- 2 What do you need besides funding?
Scale – to accelerate and grow. What do you need to scale your startup besides funding? How will you move from ideation to product development, or whatever stage you may find your startup in? Is it data, access to market or monetary investment? And once it’s evident that it is indeed money that you need to scale, be transparent about what you need it for. Who knows? The corporate might have the resources you’re looking for.
- 3. Understand the Innovation Journey
Once the design thinking and creative workshops have been done, priority projects and products outlines and NDAs signed and sealed, where to from here? And how long will it take to get to the finish line? How many more people and departments will the idea go through, and where does our role start and finish? Essentially, understand the culture of intrapreneurship of the corporate that you’re working with, and the processes and systems in place.
There are many phases involved in developing a solid corporate-startup relationship, and working together on a proof of concept might be the first or last stage of the relationship. In whichever way, so much work and time goes into these kinds of partnerships and they don’t always work out. However, in your desire to working with corporates and partnering with them, ensure that you understand the framework of the partner and your value as a startup in the period of the enthusiasm from both parties, to the follow up and eventually the implementation.
Image source: Daniel Jajoura
“Spirituality is an inner fire, the mystical sustenance that feeds my soul. My spiritual journey drives me into myself, to a sacred flame at the centre of my being. This journey gives me my eyes to see, and the inner strength to be mystery of the real.”
This quote is in one of my favourite author’s book, A Year of Miracles written by Marianne Williamson, one that’s constantly reminding me of how being and staying prepared is more important than the blessings that we ask of, of God. It’s the landing strip of the blessings that should be ready to receive them (blessings) whatever time they land, at God’s unpredictable timing. My landing strip is Age 23.
July 24th came and went and I’m finally on the other end of the age line of 23 years, and it’s been such an amazing past few weeks into this age.
Before the clock had struck midnight on July 23rd for the next day, I’d made sure that I had made a list for the coming age (Secret List of 23), and that it was covered by not only prayer of confidants and loved ones, but I’d accompanied it with an action plan for the 12 months that followed. This plan would be one that required me to work on what I’d prayed for, and to let go and let my faith take control so as to receive what I’d desired, and more importantly, what He’d be deploying that would add value to my purpose.
I won’t share with you all that I’m expecting God to pull out of heaven’s secret stash for me, but I will add that it was categorised into five sections which are namely Career, Finance and Investments, Leisure, Business Passions and Relationships, essentially how to add value to these pillars of my life. A few boxes, by grace and being intentional in my actions have been actualised, and when you accomplish something that you said you would, the feeling of being triumphant never gets old.
The secrets (blessings) of this age are coming out, and they include being selected by the company that I work for to be part of a dynamic global leadership development program for emerging female technology leaders with 199 other leaders in the organisation, to attend One Young World Summit in Bogota, Colombia as a Thomson Reuters Delegate and young leader this year and selected as one of 100 Bright Young Minds across Africa. Going to Colombia with One Young World also means that I get to travel to a new continent and country, which was on my Secret List of 23. Complementing these accomplishments are also means that my relationships need to align with the list, meaning that what and how I say it, as well as who I say and do it with (professional, spiritual or personal) , I need to be very intentional about those relationships. This means protecting, covering and investing effort into the relationships that I commit to.
I think one of the best experiences that I’m colliding into at this moment of my life is in understanding that I need to become what I desire. That I need to prepare for the head winds that will stand in between what I’m praying for, and move forward with speed. I’m not the most patient human (God is dealing with me in this, lol), and I’ve come to understand that there’s a reason why God allowed all of what’s happening in my life in this season to unfold like this, so that I may have the ability to receive in His style of abundance.
I cannot wait to see what is to be ticked off my Secret List of 23 next, and I thank you for coming along to share in my journey. I’m so inspired and motivated by your words, and I pray nothing but covering of God’s grace and the patience for you to await heaven’s secrets over your life. And this will be, our Secret!
“The best way to summon your true calling is to put yourself in service to God” – Marianne Willliamson
In my past blogs, I’ve been quite transparent about being a Christian, and how much it impacts the decisions that I make, from my career to the company that I keep and most importantly how I perceive myself and what I radiate to others. This enforced me to be cognisant and intentional about what books I consume, because words create capacity, and I need(ed) thoughts and words whose divinity and powers were beyond my own. And with that intentionality, along came Marianne Williamson’s The Divine Law of Compensation.
The first time I came across this book was through social media via a post by one of my followers whose content and character I admire wholeheartedly, and who at every opportunity she engages, enshrines the alignment between spiritual wellness and living your full potential. “The ego or false-mind is the false belief that we are separate from God.”; it as when I read this book that I knew I had to get the book.
The essence of The Divine Law of Compensation speaks to alignment of the truth of us (what we believe of ourselves) to the power of love (what God believes of us) and the seismic divine shift in thought need to be summoned in order to experience the divine law of compensation. The 16 chaptered book unpacks this Law on Work, Money and Miracles.
In her many short prayers in this book, one prayer is that of surrender and to operate on a plateau that is of the reflection of the Mind of God so as to mission in service to one’s true calling. In the “Calling vs Job” chapter, she goes on to minister about the approach and distinction between the two and approach to which one supports your God-given functionality. One of my favourite passages speaks to the abundance and permanence of God’s compensation of love towards us where Williamson says “Losing a job does not mean losing your calling because you are a personal ambassador of God, you have been given a permanent assignment.”. Once you come into self-actualization and operate on that power and potential, you’ll transcend fear and claim your calling without any limits.
One of the Divine Laws of Compensation is that of Abundance, which is what God wants for us. In the book, Williamson speaks of abundance from not only internal content, but to financial prosperity as well and the relationship that we have with money, one that needs to transition from that of embracing struggle to a firm belief that it’s not to be distrusted.
I’ve always dismissed the notion that money was the root of all evil. Money, and the abundance of it is the root of an abundant heart that is operating in service of purpose, on the fuel gratitude.
There is no reason to distrust money as it is abundance and that is of God, there is also no joy in poverty.
Throughout the entire book, Marianne Williamson fervently expresses her desires for the reader to align themselves with divine thoughts of God’s thoughts and truths about them – as the compensation for such across any vertical of your life is divine. The book also reminds us how important it is to be active in your faith, and to ensure whatever you put in God’s hands, you’ll do your part in aligning work and thoughts though prayer, the medium of miracles.
The Divine Law of Compensation is about operating from miracle minded thinking, a place of abundance and God-truth and summoning all this positivity to support your purpose in world created with you in mind.
Time flies when you’re innovating, and doing so at the intersection of user (customer) experience, business and (emerging) technology. Integrating into the system of product management is more than processes, data and advanced technologies, it’s the people that essentially ensure that there’s strategy for elimination decisions, de-risking and development for new products. And I’ve been fortunate to do this in an environment that is, as we’ve termed in the Labs, “inno-positive” for all this innovation to take place.
I joined the company as a contractor, specifically in the innovation and enterprise space. When I came on board, I did so as a project manager, the first one being the Land Hackathon that looked at how we can use emerging technology to create transparency with land administration and digitization of processes. The successful outcome of this project lead me to take on one of the biggest projects I’ve ever done, which was to lead the launch of the Thomson Reuters Labs™ - Cape Town in October 2016 with an incredible team and the support from our other global network of Labs. With the growth of the Labs, meant that so did the work, relationships, content and responsibility, and so did my role.
I then transitioned into the role of Innovation Programme Manager which leveraged on my experience in working with startups, being a dot connector with the network of the business to the data and innovation Labs and ensuring that we have a community that we can collaborate with when a particular customer-led opportunity came along, this across sub-Sahara Africa.
My expansive role now as Ecosystem Manager requires me to manage and build relationships that we have with customers, partners, ecosystem stakeholders and startups; being the connective tissue in engaging the business with Africa’s startup and technology and innovation ecosystem. With these relationships, comes the architecture of business innovation strategies that'll engage the work that we do, this externally and internally. Once these relationships are forged and the excitement of kickstarting to build a new product gets underway, it’s at times easy to get lost in the enthusiasm of it all.
Scope and Defining at High Level
Coming up with an idea can take a few minutes, days or hours of light bulb moments, connecting opportunities and challenges to existing products or product development is where product management begins. From the conversations, the idea needs to be defined, and usually organisations want a high level overview of the deliverables without scoping the project’s life cycle, but understandably, because cost and schedule for stakeholders involved is on the line. To work from this point of perspective (high level to granular) has usually worked in most cases, but each case is as unique as the innovation.
With the unique positioning of the Labs being to develop products that are customer led, engaging and gathering the voice of the customer is part and parcel of what drives impactful and creative business solutions. Corporate innovation requires a high frequency of customer centricity so as to experience and determining the feasibility of the product being worked on. Once the right customer representative is brought into the conversation and ideas are birthed, engaging them in (every) step of the process is ideal to having a successful proof-of-concepts proven.
Evangelise within the Company
The one thing that I’ve learnt with corporate innovation and working inside a large company, is that you cannot do it alone, especially in a network that’s over 45000 strong, globally. You need to know which departments, executive sponsors and in my case, Labs buddies (connecting with someone in other Thomson Reuters Labs across the work) to network and connect to. You cannot do it alone!
Product management is a team effort. It takes a corporate innovation village in order to ensure that we’re connected to the right markets, holding conversations with the right customer departments, partnering with the right internal teams, and so much more. It’s been an awesome year in product management, one with a couple of successes paired with failures that you learn to do very fast and pick yourself up again.
Here’s another year of innovation!
Before I had decided to have a sit down with my former employer and pen my resignation, I had had many dress rehearsals with myself before I decided to go ahead with the decision. The rehearsals were not to change my mind about deciding to leave the company; it was trying to figure out a timetable of when I’d do it, and how. I had decided.
“You want to feel that you have the power to bring your full, spirited self to the situation, stripped of the fears and inhibitions that might typically hold you back.” - Amy Cuddy
Prior to joining Thomson Reuters, in 2014 had been introduced to the startup and enterprise development world via The Hookup Dinner. This is where I learnt to be a dot connector with the tools of knowledge sharing, networking and being able to find the business in the value proposition between startup and the entity that the entrepreneur is trying to build with.
In 2015, because of wanting to return back to school, I decided to halt any employment and focus my efforts on school 100% to obtain my Higher Certificate in Brand Building Practice, this because I wanted to be a dot connector to who could build and develop brands. With about 4 months of school left, I received an opportunity to work at a small Public Relations (PR) firm, which enabled me to understand, that being in PR was not the only way to build brands, and that it was a field that was unfortunately not my cup of tea. I needed to return to startup and enterprise development, that’s where my passion lied - and I couldn’t let the fear of an unknown tomorrow or the lack of a Plan B deny me the opportunity to return to an environment that created value for me as I did it.
Back to dress rehearsals.
It was during this season of my life that I needed to return to what I like to call my personal board of directors, and have more dress rehearsals, this time, with them. I needed to find value in my reasons, and to be carried by their wisdom.
Align Passion(s) with your Paycheck(s)
I believe that I attracted and retained my mentors (and sponsors) because at every opportunity I could, I gave them a reason to see value to my work by adding to it with either their time or network - which ever currency they deemed my work laudatory to be. My passion and hard work got me to where I was eventually, with the value that other people saw in my work.
Converge and Create Career
I’m quite passionate about the diversification and inclusion of technology and innovating on a global perspective with a key focus on Africa, doing this at the intersection of product management and emerging technology. I find it quite irksome when people are ministered to only do one thing and not diversify their skills and interests. We’re living in a Workforce 2.0 era where the convergence of skills is leading to the over 60% of future jobs (which do not exist right now) are being created now, through employment or entrepreneurship. You can be both, I am both, a master of one trade and jack of many others.
Mentorship is a Transaction of Trust
It was after these conversations and consultations that on the 15th of February 2016, I braved what seemed to be one of the most difficult things I had to do, and resign. I had decided.
Being a mentee is not about being taken to a restaurant to have coffee with your mentor, or name dropping because of an accolade they achieved, it’s the dress rehearsals (they have with you, themselves and/or their peers) that prepare and carry you to the life-changing decisions that will create many turning points in your life. And more than anything, mentorship is a transaction of trust beyond networks, as a mentee, you have one of the most valuable currencies given to you by someone whose work and character you admire, their trust.
You know how Facebook has the capacity create a credit risk profile for your bank just based on the amount data (that we all willingly share and open) they have on you over the years of being a user? In the same breathe, a couple of weeks ago I got reminded through a post that I shared four years ago of how far I had come, both in how many emojis I used in one word and my journey with Christ and in getting to know myself in this phase of adulthood.
My 23rd birthday is approaching in the next two months, and adulting has for the past few months been a prayer that In the absence of getting lost in my identity, may God pull up a mirror of His WORD to remind me of the falsehood of insecurity and the truth of WHOSE and WHO I am. The past year itself has brought upon so many blessings that have needed me to stretch and bend myself in a way that I thought I was incapable of doing. Blessings opportune moments met with preparation that had me, and still does have me utter words of gratitude for the opportunity to serve in love with passion and humility in the work that I do.
There is no right way of adulting. I have had the compass of failure, success and integrity to guide me through the past year. And to be transparent, I lose motivation and I doubt my worthiness and capabilities to see and carry relationships and projects to fruition, no matter how entrusted I am by other parties. It’s in these few things that keep my spirit afloat and comfort and secure me in my value to my purpose …
It’s in Marianne Williamson’s quote in one of my favourite daily devotional compilations, 365 Days of Miracles where she says "I will not deflect, diminish or invalidate my dreams today, or concoct excuses for why they can't happen.", that inspires me to dream even bigger. Having a word in the morning to start your day sets one on the right path to creation of what comes out of the tongue.
Doing this also allows me to strategize how I'll go to the King, how I'll go before God and prioritize my prayer. In this, applying His promises to my prayer life as He’s designed for me as I go before God's throne.
I pray your thoughts and faith rest in the overflow of God's Truth about your life. That His promises encourage you to dream dreams that are not confined by thoughts and time. I pray that like the infinite God I serve, that you operate your faith in the realm where ALL things are possible.
A Journal of Gratitude
We’re in Day 143 of 2017, how many things are you grateful for so far? Or rather, how many moments of gratitude have you miss because the bigger picture seems to be what hasn’t been conquered or happened as yet? What I’ve started doing is collecting and cleaning mayonnaise jars, and making those my Gratitude Jars. Each Sunday, I note something that I’m grateful for that’s happened the week prior, to keep my humility in check, and to validate the awesomeness and greatness that comes from the bigger purpose of my life.
I keep a record of opportunities and moments that I encounter in the week, it doesn’t have to be a promotion, it could be another woman in technology that I’ve met or the fact that I got to eat my favourite slice of carrot cake with a red cappuccino on a day that wasn’t going so well. It’s the little things that count.
Deliberate Digital Disconnect
It is also the big things that count, like staying away from my gadgets and WI-FI, I am a millennial after all. Jokes aside, it is SOOOO difficult for me to be separated from my gadgets, especially during the week, and not work. What I try and do to deliberate about disconnecting from the virtual world of work, is to not take work home, read a book, listen to great music, go flower shopping (it’s so therapeutic)and watch fantastic series like Billions, Scandal and Quantico.
This also serves as the opportune moment to invite and practise solitude and facilitate thoughts that you’ve consciously and unconsciously vacuumed over the course of a dedicated time period.
Believing in Myself and the Opportunities to Create
The past year has been such an inspired year for my career, and that could’ve only happened through the gateway of believing that I was deserving of the opportunities that I was creating and were created for me. In the past three weeks, I’ve had the opportunity engage UCT Graduate School of Business MBA students about Innovation, New Venture Careers and Corporate and Shared Business Value as it relates to Millenials and imparting Innovation and Data knowledge about career opportunities in STEM to high school students in Khayelitsha.
The value of relationships (including mentors and sponsors), and the social currency that it is, that I speak to in Networking Your Networth, has also been an accelerant in being where I am at present in my career and my spiritual, intellectual and emotional growth. I believe that one does not only speak and it comes to fruition, but what you allow the people in your circle to speak over you, there’s power in what you allow to be affirmed over your life, with your permission.
This brings me to intentionality, particularly over my finances. I believe now more than ever that discipline aside, anything that I’ve spoken over about my finances has come into fruition, including being broke. Saving is also no talk shop, it’s work, constant work that needs the discipline of a debit order of R100 (or whichever amount you’re able to allocate) every Friday into a fixed account. I’ve also kept in mind that saving is a carrier to the destination of investing. Save to invest, and invest to create wealth.
The relationship between money and self-esteem is great. So I’m quite aware and have become responsive in being very urgent in discerning when the temptation of insecurity creeps in because I’m not able to spend, or afford. Finance is one of the things in your life that can arrest many components of your life, and your blessings.
I’m hoping that this has been quite useful, and perhaps some tricks you’ll implement. I’d love to hear from you in how you tackle everyday adulthood.
Looking forward to engaging with you.